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This is one of our brand new pages. The text follows. Let me know what you think, it’s still certainly in the editing stages. - mel

How do you identify?
Sexual identity and gender identity can be easily confused, but they’re as different as apples and oranges! Sexual identities can be based on gender identity, though, since a lot of people’s sexual preferences are gender-dependent. Not only what gender(s) the person is attracted to, but also that person’s own gender identity can go into making a sexual identity. For example, a person who identifies as a woman (regardless of the sex assigned to her at birth) that tends to like other women would usually be called a lesbian. But! You never know, she may prefer another term. Just like with gender, we all get to decide how we identify for ourselves.
How does it work?
There’s no one way to get it on. We may not have the same exuberant diversity in sex as we see in the animal or plant kingdoms around us (just think about the bee’s role in pollination), but humans are pretty creative. Where there’s a will, there’s a ton of ways to, ahem, express our affection for one another. The specifics of what works best for each body and gender identity is unique to the individual who inhabits it, and there are no rules saying which acts boys can do or which parts girls have. If it’s on the body of a girl, it’s a girl part, no matter what it looks like. Especially with gender benders, ask what names your partners might like for their parts. Understand some parts may be off-limits. Ask for permission, communicate respectfully, and (no matter the genders involved) make a safer sex plan that works for you. Oh yeah, and have fun.